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Embracing Suffering by Vincent Dania

Embracing Suffering by Vincent Dania


Photo with an article on embracing suffering by Vincent Dania

Suffering is an inevitable part of life. It is not limited to poverty or lack, but also includes the emotional pain of losing a loved one, witnessing the struggles of others with diseases, experiencing injustice, and seeing it inflicted upon others. 

While some may argue that suffering can be avoided through religious beliefs or the promise of a heaven on earth, the reality is that suffering is a natural part of the human experience. For instance, no matter how much you love and care for your spouse, the chances of both of you passing away at the same time are slim, leaving one to cope with the emotional pain of living without the other.

Even those who are financially comfortable and blessed with abundance will not be able to help every member of their community. The sight of others suffering and lacking basic necessities can also take an emotional toll on us.

It is important, therefore, that we prepare ourselves for the joys and sufferings that come with living, rather than living in the delusion that life is always filled with pleasure. By accepting that suffering is a part of life, we can learn to cope with it in a healthier and more resilient manner. This does not mean that we should resign ourselves to suffering or stop striving for happiness, but rather that we should approach life with a realistic and balanced perspective.

Suffering can also have a silver lining, as it can bring us closer to others and teach us valuable lessons about resilience, compassion, and empathy. It can also inspire us to take action and work towards creating a better world for ourselves and those around us.

Suffering is a natural part of life and should be accepted as such. By acknowledging and preparing for it, we can learn to cope with it in a healthy and resilient manner and use it as an opportunity to grow and appreciate the brevity of our time on earth and the gift of life.

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